I was watching the 40-year-old-virgin (hated it, but I don’t like comedies) recently and the scene were the guys decipher Steve Carell (sp?) is still a virgin, one of the guys asks him: Are you gay? What is it about being a virgin and not wanting to talk about sex, has always made people (of all races and ages) assume that a person who’s a virgin for such a long period of time is Gay? Being a virgin is about not having sex. Right? Being gay is about being attracted to the same sex and/or having sexual relations with an individual of the same sex. Right? So what does one have to do with the other? I’ve always wondered about this.